Study Finds Women Are Happier Being Single Compared to Men

Study challenges stereotypes, highlighting that single women experience greater life and relationship satisfaction compared to single men

A recent study published in Social Psychological and Personality Science has shed light on gender differences in psychological well-being among single individuals, challenging long-standing societal stereotypes. The research reveals that single women report higher satisfaction with their relationship status, life overall, and even sexual experiences, while expressing less desire for a romantic partner compared to single men.

Key Findings:

Higher Well-being Among Single Women:

• Single women are, on average, more satisfied with their lives and sexual experiences than single men.

• They derive greater fulfillment from non-romantic relationships such as friendships and social support, viewing singlehood as a rewarding life stage.

Men’s Reliance on Romantic Relationships:

• Single men expressed a stronger desire for a romantic partner, suggesting they rely more on romantic relationships for their well-being.

• This finding contrasts with traditional narratives that portray single men as carefree and content.

Challenging Stereotypes:

• Stereotypes such as the “lonely spinster” for women and “eligible bachelor” for men were not supported by the study’s findings.

• The study highlights that single women experience singlehood as a positive and fulfilling time, debunking myths of dissatisfaction.

Study Overview:

• Participants: Data was pooled from 10 studies between 2020 and 2023, with 5,941 single adults aged 18 to 75 (average age: 31.7).

• Methods: Participants’ satisfaction with their relationship status, life, and sexual experiences, along with their desire for a partner, were assessed.

• Findings: Women consistently reported higher satisfaction across several domains compared to men.

Implications:

The study emphasizes the importance of recognizing singlehood as a valid and often fulfilling relationship status, especially for women. It also encourages a shift in societal narratives, which have long undervalued the independence and satisfaction that many single women experience.

Researcher Insight:

Study author Elaine Hoan from the University of Toronto explains,

“These stereotypes suggest single women are having a harder time, but when tested, we found single women were happier overall in their singlehood compared to men.”

This research contributes to a growing body of evidence that dismantles outdated gendered stereotypes and provides a more nuanced understanding of singlehood across genders.