Man Seeks Divorce Advice on Social Media, Netizens Share Responses
Man Seeks Divorce Advice on Social Media, Netizens Share Responses
A 32-year-old man is considering ending his marriage after three years filled with ongoing disputes and a noticeable absence of emotional connection. Feeling increasingly unhappy, he has adopted a more passive demeanor to avoid conflicts.
He shared his situation online, detailing his relationship with his 31-year-old wife, which began on Facebook and lasted four years before they married. During their courtship, she frequently ended their relationship, blocked him on social media, and would later reconnect after a few months. Despite these, they chose to marry, hoping for improvement.
Post-marriage, however, the wife continued to react strongly to minor issues, often giving him the silent treatment for extended periods. Now, he is seriously considering divorce and is seeking advice on how to proceed.They struggled to communicate and rarely addressed their problems, which only led to more fights.
“As a cherry on the top, we didn’t consummate our marriage for first few months because she wasn’t ready. And after that, we would do it for 2-3 times a month,” says the user.
The husband realizes he has become a “yes man,” always agreeing to her desires to avoid conflicts. This lack of genuine connection leaves him deeply unfulfilled in the relationship.
His wife shows moments of affection and care, but these instances are fleeting, leading to a repetitive cycle.
The husband senses that he has turned into a “yes man,” constantly acquiescing to her wishes to steer clear of disagreements. Their closeness is lacking, leaving him profoundly dissatisfied in the relationship.
His post has gathered much interest and people are sharing their responses on social media.
“I don’t think this is the right person for you , it sounds like she’s not attracted to you in anyway,” was a comment while another said, “I suggest you to call it off. Because this type of people will never change. I waited 5 years in hope of my ex will change his behaviour but I was wrong.Finally I broke up with him.”
