Bengaluru techie questions sustainability of Metro city lifestyle
A Bengaluru techie’s social media post questioning the sustainability of modern urban lifestyles has sparked widespread discussions. Sharing insights into their own high-income lifestyle, the techie reflected on whether city living is truly fulfilling or just an endless cycle of upgrades.
The techie outlined monthly expenses, including Rs 25,000 as their share of a Rs 65,000 rent for a premium apartment with top-tier amenities. Additional costs include Rs 10,000 for maintenance, Rs 8,000 for a cook, Rs 4,000 for a maid, and Rs 3,000 for a tennis coach. Groceries, dining out, streaming subscriptions, and other discretionary expenses add to their nearly Rs 1 lakh monthly outlay.
Despite achieving financial stability, the techie raised a poignant question: Are we controlling our lifestyles, or are they controlling us? They noted the constant drive for upgrades—better apartments, luxurious meals, and curated experiences—and pondered if this reflects an inherent characteristic of tier-1 city living.
The techie also reflected on the loss of traditional skills like cooking and cleaning, outsourced in the name of convenience. While this frees up time, they argued it creates a disconnect from resilience and resourcefulness.
Another concern is the ease of spending, like Rs 100 on food delivery or Rs 500 on lessons, which may erode the perception of value. They also highlighted societal divides, as maintaining a “good life” in Bengaluru increasingly demands a high income, leaving many behind.
Netizens resonated deeply with the post, sharing their own concerns about the shifting dynamics of urban living and how it impacts priorities and values in a fast-paced, aspirational world.